Role of Women in the 21st Century By Josette S. Shiner

Women in the 21st century

I have been asked to speak today on the role of women in the 21st century. This was not an easy topic, I discovered. In preparation for this speech, I read the words and pronouncements of many leading women in America. And I was most surprised.

As these women leaders went out and spoke to the young women of America, they addressed only one topic over and over again: how could women more successfully compete with men and learn to behave more like men?

These speeches were often filled with resentment and anger. They were urging women to be tougher, to learn to fight, to learn to "play the game" in the world like men.

But I find it very interesting that when I meet with other women in media and in politics many of whom gave up having a family to pursue their goals I find them asking themselves whether their career achievements really add up to the sum of a successful life.

The more I studied these ideas and have seen the results of this philosophy, the more I am convinced that women's value will not be in trying to imitate men, or in becoming more like men.

Our value will be in honoring our womanhood and femininity, and offering to the world the wisdom that is held in this other, vital half of humanity.

Five ways to be a 'lady' in the 21st century - William Hanson

Societal rules and behaviours had died a death in this time of ours but there is still a hunger from some women and men to know the ‘rules of society’. Etiquette tutor, William Hanson (23), offers his take on the five most important rules of being a modern day lady.

Unexpectedly though, you may not love what you read especially when it comes to the ‘correct skirt length’...

Here are The English Manner’s senior tutor, William Hanson’s top tips for how to be a 21st century lady. Wade in with your views below.

1. A lady at the table

A true lady knows that she is expected to begin eating first, before the men. Do not hang back or faff around, as a true gentleman will just sit there watching his food go cold as you carry on nattering.

William explains the art of afternoon tea