Introduction:
Hello everyone.
Today, let’s talk about something that concerns almost every one of us: Passionate Love. I want to discuss love as a deliberate human action, not a passive emotion.
What is Passionate Love, really?
Love is a profound compassion — a possessed awareness or a spirit of another person’s existence within you.
The Source of this kind of Passion: The value Alignment that causes this "possessed spirit"? It is not passive or purely voluntary. It is a reaction to a value output. Passionate love occurs when an individual’s output aligns with the leadership chemistry of another person or group.
The Logic of Choice:
In other words, when a human being has two options, it is natural to love the one that brings more output to their leadership values. We often mistake basic responsibility or general compassion — stemming from our upbringing — for true passionate love. But they are not the same.
"Take the example of a trader married to a teacher. The wife helps her husband balance his books and provides administrative strategy for his business growth, all while maintaining her professional work at home. As the husband’s business expands, it's natural that he stops seeing her just as a 'wife' — he starts seeing her as his Brain Box, an angel sent to build his life.
Eventually, he views her as a sage. Even in outside conversations, he’ll find himself saying, 'Ask my wife, she already predicted this.' It becomes unconscious.
This is why, even if you lined up 100 of the world’s most beautiful people, they could never replace that first spouse. If they cannot add equal value to his leadership chemistry, they remain shadows. Value creates a bond that outlives life itself."
The Moral Lesson:
If you want to experience real, bountiful love, you must change your approach: Start impacting value into the lives of others. When you become a person of value, you create a reaction in those around you. Try this, and you will come back to tell me: "FA, thank you for that lecture," because your life will change for the better. You shall receive bountiful love in return for your impactful values.
I am Fame Agidife, and I remain your favorite Polymath Lecturer.
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